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Posts w/ suggested questions at the end.  For Kitty to gain some feedback and better understand a particlar concept or issue.

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“this seems like an exciting time for you” and other awesome alternatives to “that sounds complicated”

“Your life is complicated.” I wasn’t telling my friend about a problem or a headache.  Just a simple recounting of latest happenings.  The response?  “Sounds complicated.” If you don’t get why this is not the best thing to say, I can explain to you personally.  That isn’t my focus here. But I’m not a jerk.

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what the company we keeps says about us

I don’t always trust my instincts.

I want to like everyone.  I’m easily manipulated. I’m less gullible than I used to be, but when I first meet you I want to think the best.  Even as you inappropriately lean into me and grope me, a part of me wants to think, “Maybe you were just drunk.” …but, you know, that’s still not okay.  Ask before you touch.

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