A kitten wandering the world finds home, love, and happiness in submission. Join her on a journey of discovery as her affinity for good food, beautiful women and yummy dessert inexorably leads to something more than a relationship.
They ask me, how do you know? How do you discover love? How are you sure they are right for you? How, well, how did -you- know? I mean, you’re in love now, yes? So how did you know when it happened? When what happened? When a bolt of lightning filled with hearts and rainbow …
Sometimes you love someone– and all you receive is their pity. Sometimes you waste your life for someone– and they resent you for it. Sometimes you say, “I’ve always been there for you.”– and they say,”That’s the problem.” Sometimes you adore them– and they are creeped out. Sometimes you craft the most perfect love letter– …
I saw a piece about someone who said something nice— and another someone responded with unkind words, and this made yet another person upset. “(S)he just said something nice. Can’t you just accept that and move on?” After all, they have a point. Being nice is…nice. I wish society could be nicer. Jimmy Stewart once …
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I think I want fake relationships. I mean, I don’t know. But every time I hear about a “real” relationship, teensy little shivers flee up and down my spine. A “real” mom? A “real” parent? A “real” love of my life? No, thank you. If you need a “real” relationship, I’m likely not for you. …
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“Until it feels easy.” My heart wants people to be able to express thoughts that make them happy, but my brain sighs, “Until WHAT feels easy?”** It’s nice to say, “Being single is fun and easy!”— and certainly I do think being single is underrated. …but it isn’t always easy. Truth is, it’s tough …
My love isn’t sacred. I am not your Chosen or your angel. But, still, My love is good for you, I think. As yours is for me. And, tonight, I am glad you are holding me and protecting me from my demons.
“Your life is complicated.” I wasn’t telling my friend about a problem or a headache. Just a simple recounting of latest happenings. The response? “Sounds complicated.” If you don’t get why this is not the best thing to say, I can explain to you personally. That isn’t my focus here. But I’m not a jerk. …
I don’t always trust my instincts.
I want to like everyone. I’m easily manipulated. I’m less gullible than I used to be, but when I first meet you I want to think the best. Even as you inappropriately lean into me and grope me, a part of me wants to think, “Maybe you were just drunk.” …but, you know, that’s still not okay. Ask before you touch.
“It’s one thing to fall in love. It’s another to feel someone else fall in love with you, and to feel a responsibility toward that love.” — Every Day by David Levithan Falling in love is easy. Love is beautiful, fascinating, captivating. It’s everything of which one could dream. Falling in love takes no courage, …
